What do you see in others that you admire?
I tend to think that people who have self-actualized are comfortable with who they are and how they are. They know their failings and their strengths. They can make themselves understood when they speak. They can listen. They are humble, and honest.
So when you’ve thought about others … what do you see in yourself?
Are you happy with who you are?
Do you have an ambition that’s burning inside you, as yet unachieved?
How are you going to get there?